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I had no idea about Nell Painter's second-act career change! That is so inspiring to me. I might have to read that memoir. Thanks for writing about a subject that is increasingly on my mind, but which I'm not very well equipped yet to fully understand for myself.

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shes inspiring! maybe a bit over-inspiring, lol. but yeah, I loved the memoir.

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Also are you still running the Spiral Lab or some such neurodivergent peer support?

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We have multiple peer support opportunities in DDS (https:/www.divergentdesignstudios.com/) and in fact we were talking about something similar to this in Peer Support just yesterday. There’s another session on Friday. It would be so lovely to see you there!

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Totally get it!

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I KNOW you do! ND ladies of a specific age unite!

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You bet. I could add a lot to your reflection and I'll try later!

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Hello i hope you are doing okay! I just spent the last 2 hours looking for a video of you on ytb i watched not very long ago but i couldn’t find it at all until i found out the whole channel isn’t there anymore. I’m so glad i found how to contact you. I just want to tell you that the video about the strategies for adhd really helped i started to take some notes while watching it and i never finished doing it (ofc lol) but i wanted to since then (everyday) so i really hope you’ll put it back or send it to me. I can’t explain to you how much it comforted me. I related to everything you said and felt understood so it meant so much to me + i wanted to watch more from the channel. The strategies were helpful. Sending you love, you’re amazing 🤍

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Marta! Thank you for writing this and for your voice and clarity. I am 12 years behind you and very much in the mucky middle of things right now. Your words feel like a reminder that is like a cool breeze on a hot day. Oh, right, it’s ok and good to sink in, and accept the constraints of now. Rather than dissolving into a puddle of apathetic thought and disappointment maybe I can just be gentle with myself and sink in where I am. If I were a tree, it is definitely winter and I want to hunker down towards the roots where no one can see, no energy for flowering at all.

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Starting over....Fletcher Rahke (aka Rahke) started his graduate school pursuit of a PhD in Philosophy at 65 or so. His life had long before been interrupted by WWII, by family businesses, by family deaths, by financial woes, and _yet_ even so, he started Grad school with colleagues well less than half his age. He was a good friend and a hoot-and-a-half with his classmates. All that was before "the bucket list" concept had a fashionable name.

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