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Corry Frydlewicz's avatar

Upon reflection, I find that when I use "neurotypical" in practice it tends to mean: This person lives in denial of their differences from [impossible] cultural expectations and/or doesn't work to better understand them.

... or as a derogatory when I'm feeling bitter and jealous of what they can do more easily than me...

*sigh* Another opportunity for personal growth. Super...

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Emmeline Tyler's avatar

Wow this is amazing! Love that you quote Tyson Yunkaporta. He has two more books that are sort-of sequels to Sand Talk

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

Brilliant! Just brilliant. Much gratitude to both BJ and Marta for this.

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Bryony Hutt's avatar

I've always felt resistance to using the term 'neurotypical' and this beautifully articulates why.

Also really appreciate your reflections on the non-linear nature of visionary practices. Coloniality demands step-by-step processes with measurable outcomes...that cages inspiration. I was trapped in that for a long time, and told myself I wasn't a creative person. But since embracing my neuroqueerness, I've started imagining futures that are emergent, chaotic and revolutionary, and it makes my soul sing 💛

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The Relation Revolution's avatar

Thank you for putting this together so well, i believe that youre on the right way to look crossculturally and even more answers to this can maybe be found in quantum physics. 🌸🫧 my next post will be about feminine science and quantum physics, it has connecting points to this.

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Atlas's avatar

🔥🔥🔥

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Jenn Pebbles's avatar

Hi! Sorry if I missed it. But did you propose an alternative word to “nonbinary”? And “neurodivergent”? Would love to know. Admittedly I’m a busy mom and skimmed this.

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Jessie Ngaio's avatar

This clearly puts into words thing I’ve been thinking and feeling. Wow, really well written, thoughtful and affirming article. I love this.

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